Recently, Houston’s own Lira Galore appeared on OWN’s Iyanla Fix My Life where she opened up about her failed engagement to Rick Ross.

“Our relationship was phenomenal, but then he changed. He was doing a lot of sneaky things behind my back,” Galore explained on Fix My Life. “I’m angry because I want our black men to value us, and they don’t.” From there, Galore went on to describe how her anger drives her to drinking because “I like the way it makes me feel. It makes me forget my pain, my hurt, my heartbreak,” before adding that it sometimes leads to her acting out. Galore said her biggest problem in the relationship was “being naive” and “listening to anything I was being told.”

Watch the full interview below.